Compatibility throughout the Sun Signs [Archive]

FishNChips62

07-01-2006, 02:09 AM

and randomly.. i think these are the best matches in the zodiac...
*i think* being the key words here!! lol. This is really mostly based on observation (the recurring themes I've seen in couples I've known) so I could very much be wrong about anything. But, heh, obviously it's not a bunch of baloney I just made up if I'm posting it, you can be sure of that. Btw--some matches aren't mentioned here at all because I don't really know enough about them to say anything valid. Oh, and there's a little summary at the end for the best and most frequent match for each sign^^

These are really just some irecurring things that i've noticed with some sun signs. Beware..It is totally biased, and so could definitely be wrong!

Ok let's get started with the first category, shall we? lol

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ull see them over and over again..even if just as friends. they'll be sure to live happily ever after...

u can find a really good match for you in anyone, really..but if u keep a certain sign in mind, you have a much higher chance of finding it in them

pisces-pisces. i've Never seen a pisces work it out truly happily in the end with any other sign other than another pisces. pisces and pisces just understand and connect with each other in a way that no other sign Can with a pisces.

libra-saggitarius Venus and Jupiter...the benefics of the zodiac meet up in this one! this is sure to be a very jovial relationship full of laughter and happy times. i've Never seen this couple break up.

scorpio-capricorn. 'till death do u part. seriously. u can match sensitivities + have a lot more going ur way. this is truly the best match for you two. scorpio, don't seek happiness in any other sign. The only problem might be in the beginning, bcuz since neither of you are too keen about wearing your heart on your sleeve, opening up could take some time ..along with seeing the similarities the two of you share and actually bonding. Also you both are crazy when mad, especially Capricorn, but the bond you share will most likely keep you running back to each other anyway.

taurus-capricorn. often best friends, but even a better love match! they get along well from the start. Capricorn could opt for taurus or scorpio.

leo-saggitarius truly the happy-go-lucky duo. u'll be fantastic adventurers and seekers of the fun and excitement you both want from life! side by side is how you'll stay in stride. these two rarely break up.

leo-aries ooh, these two..lots of chemistry! unfortunately..a lot of times they won't make it to become a couple. Why? bcuz they hook-up ONLY if the aries can admit she/he admires the leo. Leo needs to be admired. he/she will never get into a relationship w/ someone if they don't think they're admired/atleast respected by them. leo and aries get along amazingly in day-to-day conversations. but really, the aries must admire the leo and let him/her know to get them to become a couple. these two make a wonderful couple.

virgo-libra there's a connection to this one. a deep sense of love for one another. problems are common, sure. but u can make it work. the bond u share can make it last. you are both interested in intellectual growth more than anything..and so you will have this in common with one another.

libra-aquarius - this is THE perfect match for both the libra and the aquarius. they complement each other really, really nicely. for gemini it's either of the fellow air signs..
gemini-aquarius it's really cool to stand aside and observe the communication between these two. they can really spark one-another's imagination. They're also both really friendly, and of course are both air signs..which is the main thing here. a very good match! and also a frequent one.

gemini-libra you two can talk about anything and everything under the sun! you're not likely to experience too many problems..

also, i must add:
Aries-Taurus this, when thses two do come together (which isn't all too frequently..at least not as much as pisces-pisces or scorp-cap, or leo-sagg, or leo-cancer, or cap-sagg, or virgo-taurus, etc etc u get the point.) this match usually turns out well. they can talk about anything. and if the taurus is able to keep the aries interested he may soon fall in love and you can bet he'll be loyal soon after that happens =) However, that's when the aries is male. I can imagine that an aries-taurus match where the aries is female and the taurus male also to have a happy ending, as these two share a special bond^.^

FishNChips62

07-01-2006, 02:16 AM

still really GOOD matches, still seen often, but just a bit less likely to work out/or maybe just a little more rough patches needed to smooth over to make work in the end

pisces-aries Pisces brings out the soft side in aries. these two could really learn from each other. pisces to be more self-confident and aries to be a lil more sensitive..and to dwell a lil more on the mysteriously beautiful not-in-ur-face things in life. pisces may be hurt by aries' impulsiveness and insensitivity at times, tho, but with pisces' open and accomodating nature, it's all likely to be butterflies and rainbows in the very end.

aries-sagg The hardest of the fire sign matches to work out bcuz they both wanna be in control. if they can get over that..they'll be sure to last

virgo-taurus a very good match, even better than virgo-libra ..except a virgo-libra is more likely to occur bcuz of the feeling of a strong connection between these two. probs with virgo-taurus arise when the virgo is too critical of taurus, and taurus finally gets tired of it. can last only if virgo learns to restrain this little habit :) from then on..it's clear skies

virgo-capricorn There's no doubt they'll get along, each being highly appreciatve and supportive of their goals and views in life, but not too likely to happen bcuz this duo lacks romantic intensity and possibly even attraction.

pisces-capricorn. these two get along really well esp as friends! they share an emotional rapport, a connection that can outlast many others, but capricorn is really just not the BEST match for pisces. and nor is pisces for capricorn. these two can find a better match in another sign. pisces in pisces(and maybe aries but another psices for true happiness..all the way!) and capricorn in scorpio. pisces needs a lot more affection than capricorn can really provide...

libra-scorpio these two will be fine as lovers. however, libra will probably bee TOO sociable or outgoing for scorpio. libra will be wanting to go out every night, when scorpio might just want some alone time with his/her honey

aquarius-sagg a good match! but better as friends...

leo-scorpio. this IS a good match, but only ends up working out for the best interest of those involved..if leo is female and scorpio is male. Well...when it comes to "rough patches" think bill and hilary clinton. anywho'z if the leo female decides on the scorpio male he will stick by her thru any storm! this is a good match, i think, with both of them being fiercely loyal, but clashes of wills.......problems with who dominates over who...are likely.

cancer-leo really good match as the moon can rely on the sun, but there are likely to be problems in the end with the leo being too self-absorbed after a while..when cancer needs Lots of love n attention.
cancer-taurus supposedly "perfect match" but it doesn't occur too frequently for some reason.

cancer-pisces very romantic pair, but lacks longetivity as there's not much really binding them together.. cancer loves and appreciates pisces' imagination, and dreamy and inspiratonal nature. pisces appreciates cancer for caring about and trying to understand his/her feelings.

cancer-scorpio be careful cancer, scorpio can destroy what he loves. scorpio can be mean and cutting when he wants to. however, other than that, this is a really wonderful match. there's lots to be said about these two. they can both be fiercely loyal to each other, and so cancer isn't likely to make scorpio jealous for any reason. also scorpio-cancer share an emotional understand that is hard to match for cancer, even maybe for scorpio. these two can share an incredible bond. but still, even with all that, it's not likely to be worth it bucz of scorpio's ability to hurt cancer so easily...and with intention. be careful cancer. don't get attached to someone who can hurt you like that.
really there is no "amazing match" for cancer..they can find their amazing significant other in any sign. taking into account the person's whole natal chart (not just their sun sign) would be required

cancer-libra. if you can find a libra who's sensitive enough, cancer, then you've got it made! libra is very romantic. actually hypnotizingly romantic when he/she wants to be. they posses an innate charm which is pretty hard to ingore when they're workin their stuff. only problem is cancer works with feelings while libra, being an air sign works with rational, logical thoughts. that's why cancer must find a more emotional libra than most to make this work.

FishNChips62

07-01-2006, 02:21 AM

frequent matches, but Not "made in heaven" . look out for these, you'll probably end up disappointed.

pisces-scorpio sparks FLY initially. both in a spiritual/emotional bonding type way AND a sexually attracive way. to put it bluntly. you'll be all over each other. especially those fairy-tale feeling kisses you won't ever forget. u'll both be really idealisitc of each other and the relationship in the beginning, but it's very hard to make it work in the end. Male scorp-female pisces -the pisces will be too flirtatious for this guy..pisces girls can be really flirtatious :) but with innocent intentions. really, they mean nothing by it, they don't really mean to lead the guy on. Scorpio willl be extremely jealous. pisces might just resent the entire thing if scorpio thinks he can dominate, conquer, and control her. if pisces can learn to curb her flirtatious ways...there might be a slight chance this could work out. scorpio and pisces really respect each other in the beginning, with scorpio being especially amazed at pisces' vivid imagination and inspirational beliefs. Male pisces-fem scorp. The male pisces will just be too outgoing for the scorp female. pisces males love being out there, socializing, and being downright silly! not to mention funny :)... when, on the toher hand, the scorpio female is very private and after a while..wouldn't be especially fond of the pisces' carefree ways

aries-scorpio. a very frequent attraction. sparks fly. . .AAll over the place. not in the emotional/spiritual way as with pisces and scorpio, but in a sexual way. Oh Yeah. this is an explosive combination often leading to a breakup shortly after the can of soda has popped open and all the explosive energy has overflowed and foamed out. arguments strife with serious clashing of wills and dead-end discussions will make sure it all burns up in flames sooner. or later. but mostly sooner. =) much much sooner.

taurus-gemini ..it may not be too frequently these two meet up. just make sure u don't hook up.

cancer-sagg the cancer will love the sagg. but sadly, the respect and admiration isn't mutual. sagg just sees the cancer as too shy...too moody...and too serious, even. sadge needs someone he can tag along with while enjoying all the wonderful adventures of life. someone much like aries or leo :)

cancer-gemini if attracted to one another this can feel like a fairy-tale romance. a common and typical sense of humor can help keep things light and frothy...helping to smooth over the hard times. but gemini's lack of emotional "depth" could just lead to a dead-end for cancer. being, a senstivie one, cancer seeks emotional understanding above all.

pisces-aquarius. not a frequent love interest. not good. let it go. stay as friends. you make really good friends, but not good lovers. Learn what you can and move on.

cancer-aquarius. aquarius is NOT, i repeat NOT a water sign! it's symbol just happens to be "the water bearer" (a person pouring a container of water) This still doesn't change the fact they're an air sign, though! :) Ok..so anyways. ha! this is such a frequent hook-up but the aquarius will prob turn out to be too friendly, outgoing and sociable for the cancer. the aquarius loves getting out there and helping any friends in need. really, any one at all. any one it may be. also cancer will eventually become irritated at aquarius' insensitivity as cancer dwells on the emotions and aquarius dwells on the mind, the ideas. an excitement of the emotions felt will occur initially, but that's the key word..initially. pretty soon, once the excitement dies out, you'll have to deal with each other on a daily basis, and the milk's likely to turn sour. however, there still is hope! a look at the aquarius' birth chart can give most uncertainty away. but if after that there is no hope. lol. no use crying over spilled milk =)

FishNChips62

07-01-2006, 02:23 AM

Frequently attracted to one another. need a lot of patience to make it work..but happiness can prevail.

cancer-capricorn. can be very attracted to one another. the cancer will feel hurt when capricorn doesn't provide the attention he/she needs and both may feel lonely as a result. the cap is probably busy out trying to make it work for their career...tryin to make a living and trying to prove themselves in the world, while the cancer longs for the attention he/she needs. If they can work out this difference in goals in life, really, they can make it work.

cancer-aries. stron..strong attraction. cancer esp prob finds aries the most attractive here, as aries has a fiery sexuality that everyone can see and does take note of. aries likes cancer's cool sexuality too. this attraction can lead to a lot of groping and long makin out sessions lol, but when the need to communicate arises...irritation is most likely gonna be there. aries guys love doing the chasing, but will get bored with someone who's not even remotely hard to get..as the cancer will prob be since he/she is so loyal and in need of emotionally-satisfying commitment. unless the aries' moon sign is in a water sign, perhaps, aries really just looks for excitement in the chasing of the girl he wants. he isn't really thinking about how emotionally fulfilling it will all be. lol but surprisingly, a lot of cancer-aries couples have more than just an attraction to each other, but actual love. This love is what makes it work in the end. If you feel the bond is there, go for it. Love can make can make this one work.

pisces-virgo um it can work out, but I doubt you'll be able to be completely happy together. some big, big problem is really likely to arise sooner or later that'll make you think twice about saying together. still, if you can overcome those and stay together...may the force be with you ..for the other soon-to-come obstacles!

cancer-virgo. a frequent friendship. your personalities are just so similar that it's quite easy to relate to each other and be friends. however, you should be warned that a real emotional rapport...a real deep connection with each other is unlikely to ever happen. plus, even tho vrigo is jsut as sensitive as u are, cancer, virgo's have more intellectual goals than emotional ones. really, ur just better off as friends. the cancer is loving and affectionate in communication...the virgo's all about stick-to-the-facts cold hard communication. real love..or any real connection at all, actually, is just not likely to ever fully blossom here!

aquarius-capricorn if you meet up when ur still teenagers..then it's not as likely to work out. however, meet when you're already grown and matured..and the chance is a lot higher! you can make it work out in the end. esp since you both have a great sense of humor!

p.s. please remember something. anyone could actually find a really good partner under any sun sign whatsoever. it is just that it is more likely to happen under certain signs tha others. But, more likely to happen isn't definite, right? It's just...exactly that:)...word for word..more likely to happen. a good look at any couple's overall compatibility can be "calculated" at http://astroadvice.com for free. you have to sign up. go to romantic compatibility under love & relationships. you must know your partners birth date in order to get any where with this. why not just try it, what coud it hurt?

p.s. I wrote this for a board where most people where newbies to astrology, lol so if you're like "Duhhh" then yea, that's why =)

FishNChips62

07-01-2006, 02:30 AM

SO! all in all. here are the most frequent and also BEST matches for each individual sign. MstFr=most frequent.

Aries
MstFr=aries-sadge. aries-pisces. and sometimes aries-taurus. but aries-leo for most likely to get along really nicely as friends.
BEST= in the end? Leo

Taurus
MstFr=virgo. cancer. aries. and in last place (as a coupld, not as friends!) for most frequent is capricorn.
BEST=CAPRICORN. virgo in second place, and with cancer it depends on more than just the sun sign really..

Gemini
MstFr=Aquarius. Leo. libra. cancer.
BEST=Aquarius. but it could work just as well with libra. Leo & gemini are great friends...they'll laugh a LOT and have tons of fun 2gether, i dunno about as a couple tho...it work tho, if they're really attracted to each other, yeah! go for it.

Cancer
MstFr=as friends? really anybody.. but first is Leo, then Virgo and Capricorn, I'd say. As a real love interest? Usually Leo...and also pisces & scorpio, fellow water signs. aquarius, capricorn, and aries.
BEST=pisces. if they can establish a bond. or libra, if the libra is sensitive enough. or taurus if they can find & hold on to one...and last but not least, Leo, as cancer can depend on leo, but cancer must try not to become too naggy for attention while leo is out saving the world. Leo's and cancers probably find it easiest to feel the're meant to be.

Leo
MostFr=Cancer & Gemini for leo, yea. Aquarius at times. libra is very interested in them, but leo ..being so self-absorbed.. is unlikely to pay any attention to or fully respect the libra. This is the same thing that happens with Sun-Venus aspects. A leo usually ends up making it work with a saggitarius.
BEST= for the happiest, most fulfilling relationship? Aries. but second-best is definitely the remaining fire sign, saggitarius.

Virgo
MstFr. As lovers? Libra. As friends? Taurus and Capricorn.
BEST= taurus. and second .. Libra, if you, virgo, are willing to face the hardships that will test your love for this person. and maybe Capricorn, I dunno, I'm not sure.

Scorpio
MstFr=Aries first. Libra second. Cancer & Pisces tie third. Capricorn fourth. virgo in second-to-last place. in virgo-scorpio, scorpio will eventually realize that the virgo is really looking more for intellectual fulfillment, rather then emotional as the scorpio is. AND aquarius in last place.
BEST=CAPRICORN. need i spell it out for you? capricorn all the way =) if not, capricorn..then libra. but don't waste ur time if u don't feel ur as happy as u could be with libra, scorpio! go for the capricorn! nudge nudge, wink wink

Sagittarius
MstFr=Capricorn, Libra second, Aries, and in last place Leo! and in last last place, i'd say gemini.
BEST=LIBRA. if not libra, then leo. if not leo, then aries =) and if not aries, then capricorn :) sag-cap is really good for friends, :) ull have fun times together, but really the relationship is likely to be rife with arguments in the end. Cap may just be too goal-oriented and stick-to-the-rules -minded for sadge. Still, feelings of kinship n sympathy flow easily between u!

Aquarius
MstFr=Gemini. Saggitarius. Cancer. and in last place, Leo.
BEST=LIBRA. second-best is gemini.

Pisces
MstFr=another pisces. in second place comes pisces-scorpio and pisces-capricorn, even a very frequent match for just being good friends. and lastly, but still very frequently, pisces-aries. Then is.. pisces-cancer ---these two will see each other as a romantic interest at least one time in their lives..but it's not likely to really last. i should note, tho, that pisces gets along really well with any sign at all b/c they're so accepting of everybody. esp. also taurus and virgo since they can also have a loyal, sensitive side to them, which pisces always appreciates in a good friend. however, pisces isn't really likely to fully establish a deep bond with either of these two.
BEST=CANCER---but ONLY if they are able to bond intensely. this would be the perfect match, as two pisces living together would probably lose touch of most of reality for long periods of time. Who'd pay the bills? here, it's be up to cancer. And pisces-pisces....that's a good question! =) Really, the person a pisces is most likely to end up with or even become best friends with...will also be a pisces. Lastly, if it CAN't be a cancer (which is likely) and if it CAN't be a pisces for some reason..then,....aries is last.

Lorielle

07-01-2006, 12:13 PM

Pisces
MstFr=another pisces. in second place comes pisces-scorpio and pisces-capricorn, even a very frequent match for just being good friends. and lastly, but still very frequently, pisces-aries. Then is.. pisces-cancer ---these two will see each other as a romantic interest at least one time in their lives..but it's not likely to really last. i should note, tho, that pisces gets along really well with any sign at all b/c they're so accepting of everybody. esp. also taurus and virgo since they can also have a loyal, sensitive side to them, which pisces always appreciates in a good friend. however, pisces isn't really likely to fully establish a deep bond with either of these two.
BEST=CANCER---but ONLY if they are able to bond intensely. this would be the perfect match, as two pisces living together would probably lose touch of most of reality for long periods of time. Who'd pay the bills? here, it's be up to cancer. And pisces-pisces....that's a good question! =) Really, the person a pisces is most likely to end up with or even become best friends with...will also be a pisces. Lastly, if it CAN't be a cancer (which is likely) and if it CAN't be a pisces for some reason..then,....aries is last.

Omygodno. :) I've never met a Pisces man that I liked that much. Of course, the one that I did like was a serious drunk. :( And Omygodno more Cancer men, ever, please. :)

Only dated 1 Scorpio. It sort of burnt out. My first "true love" was a Leo. (Who also went on to be a drunk.)

I liked my Capricorn an awful lot...

Lori

Barry-ann

07-03-2006, 10:54 PM

Virgo here, and just as two other female V friends madly in love with a Cap. Passion in heaps: we are both sensual earth signs after all... despite everything you read about Virgo's and Caps.

Lynns

07-04-2006, 03:02 AM

DainBramaged,

I agree with you on the pisces-pisces one. Although both fishes can live in their own world of daydreams and ignore reality as it is.

Aries-Taurus : one classic example is Beckham and his wife!

For me, I am a libran, and I actually disagree a tad bit with your libra-aq and libra-gemini forecasts.
Aquarians are a bit too fixed for me (is that a fixed sign?), and fixed means pretty stubborn.
Geminis, at least those I have met, are not serious relationship potential. Easy flirts, and they mess with your mind, for a good laugh. I'd say I won't want to take them seriously because I can never figure out where I stand with them (duality, no?). And, geminis are little boys.. good to banter with.

Also, I have to add, I see alot of Scorpio women falling for Gemini men. It must be that control streak in them that fancies taming the flighty gemini and tame him.

Virgo-libra, I tend to agree. Most guys who tend to be attracted to me are virgoans. However, it does not work out.

Libra-sagittarius : Brad Pitt and Gwyneth Paltrow! I think Saggi Brad broke up with Libra Paltrow. I think this combi works only when Saggi is ready to settle down.... else he will hurt libra with his freedom loving guises, with nary a commitment promise! The other way (Libra man-Sag woman) might work out though.

Aries-scorp is dynamic - My parents are this combi and they've been married for more than 25 years.

Ohh, and you missed out Libra-Libra, both in the last section and the middle section! I'm sure the indignant sign would scream unfair! ;) unless of course it's an honest mistake!

For me, I have a Libra stellium, so I think that librans fit me best - I need someone who understands me. Ugh, the worst is Aries-Libra (guy-girl) - that's a no-no!

I enjoyed your analysis though.

Sanem

07-04-2006, 11:40 AM

FishNChips62

07-04-2006, 11:58 AM

Thanks for your comments! I'll definitely integrate them into it, I could only base it on 1-2 relationships for most. Thanks! lol i 'preciate it =)

p.s. Lynns- I love your quote! gah! *reaches out towards screen*

oh yeah, anywho'z I do have to say I agree with all you guys said, the sag-libra esp! i forgot that i also have a libra friend who went out with a sag guy but the sag guy ended up fleeing once again. I have another friend-a sag GIRL - who's going out with a libra guy, and Oh Yeah it's workin out ;-)

suprised to hear about the virgo-cap thing b/c i've neverrr known a virgo-cap couple or any virgos or capricorns who were attracted to each other. But then again, now u see how small one little person's world can be...and how limited it could make their perspective..when writing about Everyone, in general!

Oh and i was surprised about the libra-aqua part! Aquariuses can be stubborn, yes, dammit! argh two of my best friends are both aquariuses and at least one is very open to astrology, but the other! rawr--and worst of all, she admits i's true ;-) but still i no get it..she says it creeps her out and so it's not cool enough. Hmm..well, but i think once u get over the fact that they always think they're right about everything, then u might be able to get somewhere? Like, from my experience aquarians are really lovey-dovey...they basically adORe being in relationships!

btw-! I have a question. What do you think about a cancer-aquarius couple? Does anyone know any...?and if they ended up working out? muchas gracias.

One more thing--what do think about a cancer, lynns? I think maybe it'd be better for a cancer girl with libra guy, but seeking ur opinion either way^^
Oh yeah, and i'm sorry to hear about the libra-virgo thing...sorry for my friend that is >.> Well, she's a virgo gal so it might just be different. Let's hope so. lol.

ok ok i swear this is the end. right here. lol. Lori, i was surprised to hear about your first true love being a leo...when i realized your moon sign was leo! (Duh!) just like mine =]

And to end it...sorry lynns, about not putting libra in the end there either..honest mistake! ;-) honestly.

FishNChips62

07-04-2006, 12:10 PM

Mabel,

From what I learned from this thread: http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2082

I'd suggest for you a strong Aries/Leo.
But I'm also curious, why do you figure you like Capricorns? You do have a strong Cappy, so I would think you'd get along well with them (you do from my experience anyways ;)).

Hm, also, sun sign is one thing, but I figure it's vital (and a lot of fun! :D) to look at the rest of the chart as well. Example I'm a Taurus, yet in my relationships I also have strong Cappy/Cancer/Aries/Gemini energies (but not say Pisces, or Libra...).
Although when I get around the women I love, I've observed a "switch" in my energies, where I think my Taurus tends to push it's way to the foreground.

Hey Sanem^^

Capricorns are just sexy--basically b/c they have this solid/detached look you could say..almost unemotional. That's always been attractive to me. What I like mos about capricorns though-well I def appreciate their sens of hummore, but it's not what i like most-it's the fact that once you get to know them there's a whole lot more that you wouldn't have caught from a first glance. I love a mystery.

Btw aries on the dc/7th to me means that I'm ATTracted to aries...but doesn't necessarily mean they'd be right for me. The only reason why I have aries ont he 7th is b/c of my libra ascendat, isn't it? I think that' just how the houses work out. I dunno, there might be exceptions, but I think everyone with a libra asc (libra in 1st house) ends up with aries dc (aries in 7th house).

And about the leo part, I could say i would be attracted/or maybe just more compatible with/to someone with venus and/or mars in leo like i have. They'd be able to match my intensity.--well other signs that could do that too are aries and scorpio, but i think leos are more prone to shower with affection--and not to mentiom, AttentION! ^^Which is always a good thing in my book.

And it is a lot of fun to look at the rest of the chart! well, esp when you just get a quick compatibility rating from astroadvice.com and you don't really have to look at the chart. lol. but yea the point is taking the whole chart into account^^
Still, though, I find it helpful to take their sun sign into account..first! It's not like I'll do away with any chance of being compatible with them at all...it's more like...they're sun sign is in the back of my mind, and every time they do something that's related to it i'm like a-ha! What a capricorn...
Like i told u b4 lol, i like keeping a a little agenda in my head about the signs i get along with the best.

lol. kay. the message has gotten long enough.
=) Later, Sanem!

Lynns

07-04-2006, 12:28 PM

DB,

Thanks :-)

About the libra-aq, I guess I haven't met enough Aquarius guys or didn't ask their sun sign to make an accurate assessment. But I had an Aq guy friend once, whose energy did not particularly fit mine. I think he's wacky and fun though. The Aqu guy hooked up with the Aqu girl (same year) and they probably understand each other very well (but they since broke up, on amiable terms of course :) )

Ah, I can't answer the Cancer-Aq one! I don't know, but from what I've seen (a few of my friends) they aren't even close friends.

Cancer, for me does not seem to gel.. because I have no planets in cancer, and only one in water. But incidentally, my desc is in cancer and NN in cancer too. I did like a cancer guy once, and he liked me too, but nobody said anything to each other. Overall, I don't particuarly gravitate towards cancers.. But I can see how cancer/lib might work out if Libra has more water or cancer has more air, or something like that ;)

For libra-virgo (male-female), I read Linda Goodman, or some book that said Mr Libra will take advantage of Ms Virgo's compliance and willingness to be there for him and look after him. So I hope your friend does not get unappreciated, by not allowing Mr Libra that free a reign!

I also like to add my experience with Leos (sun sign).
Ha! Cannot, cannot I say! I refuse to bow down to their majesty, and they eventually will get hurt because they need royal adulation. I like Leos and they like me, but it can never work out because I cannot submit, and pretense is bad for both in the long run!

FlyAway

07-04-2006, 02:47 PM

cancer-aquarius. aquarius is NOT, i repeat NOT a water sign! it's symbol just happens to be "the water bearer" (a person pouring a container of water) This still doesn't change the fact they're an air sign, though! Ok..so anyways. ha! this is such a frequent hook-up but the aquarius will prob turn out to be too friendly, outgoing and sociable for the cancer. the aquarius loves getting out there and helping any friends in need. really, any one at all. any one it may be. also cancer will eventually become irritated at aquarius' insensitivity as cancer dwells on the emotions and aquarius dwells on the mind, the ideas. an excitement of the emotions felt will occur initially, but that's the key word..initially. pretty soon, once the excitement dies out

What do you think about a cancer-aquarius couple? Does anyone know any...?and if they ended up working out?

I'm a Cancer and I love Aquarians :)
I even have a sort of -says enough ;)- relationship with an Aquarian.
Basically they're good company, both men and women, there's always something to talk about,
now matter how deep or trivial, and they're never boring.
What I like the most about Aquarians is that they not only love their freedom,
but that they also respect the freedom of others.
They're not possessive or jealous, they give you all the room you need to be yourself and to do what you want.
But still they're interested what's on your mind, no matter how weird it is.

For example, when I'm moody or grumpy, he lets me be moody or grumpy,
and he minds his own business.
When he wants to DO something or meet people and I want to stay HOME and rather read a book, he let's me.
He won't whine, he won't criticize me, he won't tell me I behave like an old spinster.
He says: fine, you read your book I go swimming (or something like that)

It's Summer now, so we spend more time together than usual.
We can even live together, although we have different rhythms.
I'm the home body, the private person.
He's more outgoing, sociable, active and fun loving.
So he comes home when he wants to.
And I've got the house all for myself, I can do my private crabby things.
He gives me the space and loneliness I need and he feels more grounded because he's got someone to come home to.

But there are buts, of course there are.
Although we would make a great couple, and he agrees with that, he's got a settle down and marriage phobia.
He even said: I buy you everything you want, except an engagement ring :D
It's also not clear what kind of relationship we have, one could say that we're friends and lovers.
But we're still somehow commited and loyal to one another.
His sense of freedom makes me loose up a little.
And because he doesn't fancy ego games, I know that I can trust him.
I feel more relaxed and secure with him than I would feel with a possessive guy
who would treat me like the Queen of Sheba.

What about emotions?
Of course I'm the one who's emotional.
And he's more observant, but not "cold" like Aquarians are sometimes discribed.
He's got a wonderful trait, he's got understanding, he's interested,
he's willing to listen, even if he seems to feel with his mind, it's an empathic kind listening.
Other watery people, like Pisces for instance, usually cry harder than I do,
and that gets more on my nerves than someone who stays cool and analytic.
My Aquarian doesn't cry with me, but he holds me and understands me.
Besides that, we can TALK, if he doesn't understand my emotions, I explain what I feel and he understands.
And when he's talking I'm empathic enough to understand how he feels.
Whenever I feel dramatic, I got all the room to express myself.
He finds it amusing, he's thrilled by my stormy nature, it gives him all the excitement he needs.

And that's why our sex life is good too.
There's room (Aquarius) for expression, passion (Cancer) and experiments (Aquarius).
There's mutual respect for each other's little quirks.
For my mysterious moods and for his original ideas.
It's one of the best matches I've ever had.

The reason why I get along with air signs is because I'm also pretty airy.
And I've got Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aquarius.
But my Moon and Ascendant in Scorpio.

I'm pretty new to astrology myself, but I hope my story helps (to get things more complicated ;))

Howl

07-04-2006, 03:18 PM

Hey FlyAway

That's a great story! Sounds like you have more than 'almost' a relationship ;) and this guy sounds like everything that's brilliant about an aquarian. Luck you!

I have a very aquarian friend (sun, rising, mercury) who has a Cancerian boyfriend. The interesting thing about them is that they're so different and they work. She makes jokes that she knows she's got to get rid of him, that she's not attached, and he makes smart comments about how she's an ice princess (hehe) but they're so damned honest, real, forgiving, accepting and loving.

It may help that she has a fourth house taurus moon, I suspect ;)

FlyAway

07-04-2006, 03:51 PM

For me it's the freedom thing that makes it work. It gives me exactly the air I need.
If there are two things I can't stand in a relationship it's possessiveness (from others of course ;)) And insecurity/instability (a typical Cancer thing).
Cancers tend to be clingy, but I found out that if there's trust and enough space to be myself in a relationship, I don't need to hear 100 times a day that he loves me.

Sanem

07-05-2006, 09:35 AM

Hey Sanem^^
Capricorns are just sexy... solid/detached look you could say..almost unemotional... attractive... sens of hummore, ... more that you wouldn't have caught from a first glance. I love a mystery.

Lol, I know the detached look thing, pull that off all the time, though I didn't know people could find that sexy.

Although that's probably because I always asume I can't pull it off, even though I find it "sexy" myself (it's an image I instictively try to project = Cappy to the tenth power).

You see, pretending to be calm for me (and other strong Cappys I assume) is often a compensation mechanisme for the huge amount of stress I (we) feel inside (although at other times, I feel like a solid rock in a stormy sea, but that could be my Taurus side).

So because I'm all stressed out I figure that most people can see right through me, but I recently found out that actually few people do (nor can I see "through" another Cappy, while I can admire them strongy if they pull it off, but on the other hand I'll be the first to see the tell signs of "Cappy behavior" because I know the other side all too well).

... ATTracted to aries...doesn't necessarily mean they'd be right for me....aries ont he 7th is b/c of my libra ascendat

Hm, ok, good point, all Libra Asc have Aries Desc (with exceptions I asume). Plus if your hour of birth is slightly off, that could give you a different Asc/Desc, but we'll skip that part.

But to me that makes sense, asuming that "opposites attract". The opposite of Libra (balanced, steady, calm) being Aries (imbalanced, passionate, whatever).

Although you might than also apply that concept to the sun signs: ie I'm Taurus, so I'm attracted to Scorpio, etc. But that's also the trouble with comparing sun signs: I might fall for a Pisces (although generally they're not my type) because she might have a strongly aspected Scorpio.

someone with venus and/or mars in leo

Well yeah, I've got a thing for a Cancer girl with that combination: she gets along extremely well with Leo types, and she herself is a Leo type (not very attractive to me, don't like Leo or Saggi types, too self-confident for my taste).

...to take their sun sign into account..first! It's not like I'll do away with any chance of being compatible with them at all...it's more like...they're sun sign is in the back of my mind, and every time they do something that's related to it i'm like a-ha! What a capricorn...
....a little agenda in my head about the signs i get along with the best...

Lol, I've been thinking "what a Libra" all weekend because one of my teachers :D. And I too keep comparing sun sings (for example that Gemini girl I got along well with this weekend, I focused on verbal communication with her, purely because I knew her sun sign). Also because it's easier than "hello, my name's Sanem, do you happen to have your birth certificate at hand? Why what a coincidence, and I happen to have my laptop at hand; let me just insert your data and I'll know if we'll be friends or not..." :rolleyes:

Hm, is that the Cappy type sense of humour you referred too? If not, could you give me an example? About once a month I crack myself up, simply by pointing out my obsesive behavior to myself :p.

07-05-2006, 10:33 AM

Manic_Monday

07-05-2006, 12:11 PM

Sanem

07-05-2006, 12:52 PM

That's pretty much what I've been trying to say to Dainbrammaged. But than she's been explaining to me that she's been playing around purely with sun signs, and I've agreed that that's acceptable since it's very tricky to get someone's chart, never mind everyone's.

But I guess that's why women read woman's magazines, and men the paper and technical magazines...

That's a generalisation, since I know plenty of women who actively follow the news, but my point is that women love simplifying things, while men tend to be more/too materialistic. Well, depending on your chart and what else ofcourse, but speaking purely about the difference in sexes, I believe my point still stands.

FishNChips62

07-08-2006, 11:08 PM

Yes this little Aquarian thing is a stubborn little thing, just ask her Gemini partner. Although I have a Lib DC, I can only think of one Libran male that I met and I only dealt with him for such a short time but I feel that we really did get along with each other.

I love Gemini males, they are such teases. I loved to be tricked. I suppose it is my gemini mars. Otherwise, a really hot, handsome and dashing leo can get me quite fatally (my 5th house, my partner is a gemini with a leo mars falling in my 5th) but I find them incredibly pushy and they try to break you (both of our stubborness) and that's when I get very defensive and I scream back at them and rebel.

Otherwise, a very good friend of mine is a cancerian and another libran. But they both have airy and firery elements in their charts (moon).

But on the other hand I have met two female sags, a female virgoan and a female gemini and I consider them the worst people that I have ever met. So it cuts both ways really.

Otherwise, taureans do *nothing* for me.

Shouldn't we be looking at the whole chart?

Hehe! The part that's in bold in the quoted text above reminded me of this part of a book of mine that talks all about how each ascendant (and i'm guessing yes, it would also apply to sun signs --sanem. lol) attracts each other, when they each want another kind of person as their partner, but they open your eyes to how you're actually attracting this person who you can't stand b/c you're supposed to learn from each other! (and erm..."complement" each other...as opposites would) BTW--in case u weren't aware of this one^^ (with maybe a few exceptions i guess?) your ascendant(first house cusp) is in the opposite sign of your descendant(7th house cusp)..which means you attract your opposite. So yea, they try totell you here that the reason you're attracting your opposite is so that you can learn from each other.

Here goes! This one's between an aquarius asc person and a leo asc person.
BTW-I'm aware you might not have an aqua asc, but I'd think at least some of the stuff mention would apply to at least some aqua-leo sun sign relationships...ok lol. Here 'tis.
"YOU have: Aquarius Rising -&- Leo Setting
You: Observer or Outsider Other: Showman or Show-off

The Interaction: Your approach is cool but friendly. A person's intellect and social or political viewpoint is what appear to interest you most, for you engage on that level first and foremost. Emotional and sexual vibrations ae kept beneath your surface. ranging in depth from merely needing scratching to reveal rich, intense feelings, to being virtually unavailable or non-existent. This measure of how emotionally acessible you are is critical with regard to how "Other" responds or reacts to you. They may coast along with your apparanetly airy coolness for quite some time until either they explode with boredom or frustration - or you do. In either case, it is this distance that you create and keep between Other and your true inner feelings that is responsible for this kind of reaction. Consciously or unconsciously, Other is trying to show you that it's all right to have human emotions, to have highs and lows and not just hover in some safe and socially acceptable place inbetween. On the other hand, your impartial and intuitive assessment of Other's nature and worth, and life in general, is something which Other should take note of - so express it with some confidence and style!

Shadow(your oppisite, aka leo) = Elitism
Unless there are Leo planets in your chart, you are inclined to feel uncomfortable with sticking out in a crowd or having a high profile. You cringe if Other should be showy, exclusive or blow their own trumpet. This is a sign of a classic kind of Shadow because it misses or obscures your own sense of specialness. Possibly you choose to display your uniqueness by appearing unusual or unconventional, but in a fashion that is acceptable in itself - that is, you are 'conventionally unconventional' or put on an act in a professional capacity. In truth, what you might regard as elitism in Other is just your own specialness which is unexpreses or suppresses b/c you doubt it for some reason. Let it show and it will grow!

Style of Relationship
As if to confirm much of the above, you like your relationship with Other to be special or in a class all of its own. An 'ordinary' or lacklustre relationship is not for you, and even if you think id it, it's not what you'll get. In fact a fiery, dramatic relationship is quite likely because it serves to keep you in touch with you ego and emotionas, things which you are inclined to disassociate from in order to appear 'civilized'."

FishNChips62

07-08-2006, 11:26 PM

But what about people who can't relate to their sun sign? You know, people whose other planets dominate the chart. Then the characteristics of the sun sign don't come forward.
I don't agree with your matches - I think Virgo does very well with a Sagg. The Virgo teaches the Sagg to calm down and to think before he acts. The Sagg teaches the Virgo to broaden his horizon and how to enjoy life. They match wel because they're each others opposites.
This may not be a long life relationship, but they learn from each other - and isn't that what they both want?

*This Virgo could be biased, since she is attracted to Saggs the most*

Hi. Ok, I never said anything about Virgo-Sagg couples. And if I did, please correct me? Thanks.

-confused

And what's this about you not agreeing with my matches..? is it automatically..? because i said something about Virgo-Sagg somewhere...?though I can't put my finger on it now, I don't think I said anything ..hmm.. I remember thinking I didn't know enough about the couple so i decided to not include 'em. Anyway, a reply would be appreciated. I'm a little confused, lol. Thanks!

By the way, about when someone's sun sign doesn't really match them b/c other traits are more dominant in their chart...then yeah, it does make even more sense to look at the rest of their chart. But, still It's a stubborn habit that I've acquired, and I do believe that everyone to some extent generally can be summed up by their sun sign...like repeated themes in the rest of the chart, i think are kind of just like an...attribute Lol. I mean you have the sun sign you do for a reason, right? for a very important reason...b/c I think you're meant to see life mainly through those spectacles, and not through any other sun sign's. Lol ah I'm just blabbering on. haha I'm gonna be hated. But, yeah, I dunno why I just feel that way. So yeah, it does sound a tad contradictory, oh yeah. lol so.. what I said about how i kept the sun sign in the back of my mind is /bc deep down I think that everyone will, to some extent have those traits of their sun sign, maybe not all of them, but I think in a general sense, they will. Like, I may be completely wrong, though, that's just something I feel is true, ya know? Really, I'm not trying to convince anyone here. Just kinda let this little cancer cling on to their intuitive ways, i guess, lol. Thanks, though, for the food-for-thought.

p.s. Hm. The above sounds a lot like what Sanem had just posted..about how sure...if you take into account that what I just was a stereotypical generalization..then No. It's not true. But still to some exntent I believe my point still stands. Lol haha that's great since it's exactly what I was trying to say here. (To go against kind of what you were disagreeing on with me lolll so thanks for unconsciously clearing things up for me ~.- .....i ...guess? lol

Oh Yeah and oh my god, I think 23 is just a saggitarius and i like misunderstood everything (about what um..virgo person..said lol forgot the username, about virgo-sagg's) b/c i secretly have a fear of confrontation of any sort! well..not so secret any more, is it? hmm... lol
Ok i'm off nowww. Hugs, not drugsssss

-Mabel

lilllybelle

07-10-2006, 02:21 AM

I agree with a lot of the things Lynns said. I'm a gemini and I don't really care to date other air signs unless it is a gemini. Now as far as female friends go almost all of my them are air signs for me. I have also noticed the scorpios getting hot and dramatic over me. You'd think they want to control me and lock me in thier dungeons. Ecspecially the moon in scorpios them seem to be the only guys who ever fall in love with me. I fall in love with them too. I just don't like the feeling that they are trying to posess me. I also think scorp and cap seem to love each other a lot. I've also noticed gemini and cancer getting together a lot. What I've really noticed is people seem to hook up with people whos sun squares their sun pisces and sag, cancer and aries. I've also noticed the earth signs tend to flock together and the water signs seem to get a lot of comfort being with each other. I've noticed fire signs like to be the only fire sign in the room. I've seen libra and libra together as well as virgo and virgo, and virgo and pisces. Air signs seem to want to be together for intellectual support they just like to go elsewhere for their lovemaking. Lillybelle

Sanem

07-11-2006, 10:19 PM

...about how each ascendant (and i'm guessing yes, it would also apply to sun signs --sanem. lol) attracts each other, when they each want another kind of person as their partner, but they open your eyes to how you're actually attracting this person who you can't stand b/c you're supposed to learn from each other! (and erm..."complement" each other...as opposites would) BTW--in case u weren't aware of this one^^ (with maybe a few exceptions i guess?) your ascendant(first house cusp) is in the opposite sign of your descendant(7th house cusp)..which means you attract your opposite. So yea, they try totell you here that the reason you're attracting your opposite is so that you can learn from each other.

Large quote, but I don't feel like editing much.
Very good point Mabel, didn't think about it that way: 7th house + cusp designates your partner, because it's the opposite (partner) of your self (ascendant).

I've heard this when I started astrology (from a Scorpio, grrr), that we start in first house and go to 7th house, through midheaven.

So if I'm a Cap Asc (lock emotions away), I need to go through Scorp Midheaven ([which in my case happens to contain Saturn :eek:] which is delving into my emotions) to arrive at Cancer Desc (being in touch with your emotions).

Which does describe very well the phase of life I'm going through right now, besieging the Capricorn fortress holding my Cancer emotions, mounted on my Scorpio mount (I made a drawing about it, very cool :D). Ofcourse I named the mount Fifi, despite the fact that she's a scorpio the size of an elephant...

On subject, met quite a few couples this last weekend (came back early for exam reasons, ****. And for my private Crabby reasons ;)).

Male + Female

Leo + Aquarius, hot couple (they're still young), interesting was when the girl got dronk and joined the weed smoking youth, while the Leo told me how he had experienced Saturn in the abuse of drugs and refrained from the "higher company".

Taurus + Cancer, I was expecting her to be a Cancer before she told me, I'm getting good at picking them out... :) They made a good couple, she being more sensitive and caring, he providing her with a steady rock, and caring for her if she needed it.

Capricorn + Scorpio. The Cappy was in charge of our group (family youth sailing trip), being the oldest, responsible one, always worried about what the locals would say about our youthful behavior.
The Scorpio was quite the opposite, more playful, also a lot younger (5 years), undoubtedly the most sexual girl in our company (with eyes which I now define as "scorpio eyes").

There was also a thing going on between a Taurus and an Aries (who's boyfriend was in Mexico), although I didn't really see that going anywhere.

wilsontc

07-12-2006, 04:36 AM

Sanem,

You said:
...we start in first house and go to 7th house, through midheaven...

I heard a similar thing...except I heard that we start in the 1rst house (being) and have to go to the 7th house (relationships), through the Nadir (inner world). So we start with our awareness of ourselves, then have to examine what is important to us, and then are ready to go out and meet others.

Relating,

Tim

Aqua

07-17-2006, 03:53 PM

Hi all,

I agree with the Cap/Sag being frequently together, but what I've noticed is that if the male is a Sag, he is more likely to cheat on his Cap partner. I know a few of these relationships where this is the case. One couple have been together for over 40 years, but every weekend the Sag packs a bag and spends the weekend with his mistress! Another couple have a good marriage on the surface, but the husband regulary cheats, because the wife is totally uninterested in sex - she has a Pisces Mars.

I disagree with the Aquarius being best matched relationship-wise with Libras and Geminis! I'm a triple Aqua and can't handle a Libras desperate need for partnership at any cost and the Geminis are far to slippery for me! Although, I am surrounded by them - Mum and Dad's Sun, Son's Asc, 3 of my closest friends Sun, and current partner's moon are in Gemini!

Personally, the only man that has truly understand my need for space has been my current Aquarius partner.

I actually think it's more important to look at the Moon sign to see whether a couple can actually live together.

My take for Aquarius Sun's compatibility is:
Aries - Best for sex (only)
Taurus - I like them as friends, but their far too serious for me
Gemini - Too slippery and fickle
Cancer - I always hurt them
Leo - Never dated one - even though my dsc is in Leo. I just can't play the role of pampering to their egos
Virgo - I find them too cold
Libra - Too desparate for a relationship
Scorpio - Great sex, but won't let go when it's time to move on. Also, you have to trick them into thinking they broke up with you, or they'll be hell bent on revenge
Sag - Great fun! My MC is Sag
Cap - One guy tried to make it his ambition to get with me - unfortunately, for him, he failed
Aqua - Best match. Most understanding
Pisces - A bit too soppy for me - although, I've met a few spiteful one's

Sorry if anyone feels insulted but this is my 2 cents anyway.

Aqua.

Missa

07-18-2006, 04:42 AM

I have noticed a certain pattern in relationships. Here is the "theory" in a nutshell, from hardest relationship to the easiest:
- Signs that form square aspect
- Signs that are next to your opposition sign
- Signs that are next to your own sign
- Your own sign and your opposition sign
- Signs that form a trine or sextile

So, for example if you're a Libra, that would go as:
- Capricorn, Cancer
- Pisces, Taurus
- Scorpio, Virgo
- Aries, Libra
- Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius

Do you agree? Disagree? Let me know. :)

kizmeta

07-24-2006, 03:15 PM

I agree with Aqua, i think the moon is far more important to how emotionally close we feel to someone and how comfortably we can live with them. I'm a taurus, my ex is an aries and we get on great esp as our venus' conjunct but our moons clash, me virgo him sag, so living together and finding a natural rhythm between us intimately just wasn't forthcoming so we called it a day. Others were shocked as we get on so well but to me a relationship without sex is a friendship. My sun is pretty much unaspected tho, while my moon is heavily so, so maybe i'm just more in tune with the lunar energy.

Over the years i've been most attracted to Sagittarians, Aquarians and Scorpios tho most have had a combo of all 3. I have venus & mars in aries/sag so maybe thats why. I have girlfirends that are Capricorns and i get on with them great but i've never met a male one that i've been attracted to. I get on well with pisces men as friends but have never met a faithful one, the dreamers. A guy i'm currently sharing a house with is a sag with cancer moon and i really respond to him on a domestic level. Both of us come from families with air/fire moons and it feels soothing having him around.

I read somewhere else that if anothers planets fall in your 8th house they affect you greatly for better or worse, sometimes both, and maybe thats why i'm attracted to sag/scorp energy as they challenge me.

FishNChips62

07-26-2006, 04:49 AM

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07-28-2006, 09:06 PM

Hi all,

I agree with the Cap/Sag being frequently together, but what I've noticed is that if the male is a Sag, he is more likely to cheat on his Cap partner. I know a few of these relationships where this is the case. One couple have been together for over 40 years, but every weekend the Sag packs a bag and spends the weekend with his mistress! Another couple have a good marriage on the surface, but the husband regulary cheats, because the wife is totally uninterested in sex - she has a Pisces Mars.

I disagree with the Aquarius being best matched relationship-wise with Libras and Geminis! I'm a triple Aqua and can't handle a Libras desperate need for partnership at any cost and the Geminis are far to slippery for me! Although, I am surrounded by them - Mum and Dad's Sun, Son's Asc, 3 of my closest friends Sun, and current partner's moon are in Gemini!

Personally, the only man that has truly understand my need for space has been my current Aquarius partner.

I actually think it's more important to look at the Moon sign to see whether a couple can actually live together.

Aqua.

Hello
I currently have guests with me at the moment who are approaching their 60th wedding anniversary. I don't know what their charts are like but she is a Sag and he is a Cap.

I also know another combo like this. The sag girl, who is known to be a bit loose (sorry I know this is not nice to say but true), has I think found her match in him and has last I heard, was still in a relationship with him (2 and bit years together).

I am an Aqu and my partner is Gem and I adore him. I love his slipperiness, he plays with me and teases me. I like to be kept on my toes. I know this sounds crazy but I love this aspect of Gem males, must be my gem mars and highly airy chart. As long as they don't stray then I don't care.

Otherwise, Leo is rightly too much trouble. I just get angry by the attention they constantly demand; even if they are dashing. I just find that they pounce on you and don't take things slowly.

Taureans do nothing for me and I had to share a room with a Tau who had a sun-sun square with me and we ended up in a punchup. I have a few Cap friends and seem to always attract Pisces friends. I have noticed that all the Pisces friends have something either Aqu or Gem in them and hence the attraction.

07-28-2006, 09:09 PM

Oh Yeah and oh my god, I think 23 is just a saggitarius and i like misunderstood everything (about what um..virgo person..said lol forgot the username, about virgo-sagg's) b/c i secretly have a fear of confrontation of any sort! well..not so secret any more, is it? hmm... lol
Ok i'm off nowww. Hugs, not drugsssss

No, I'm an Aqu :) and I have a very airy and a bit of a firey chart.
...

These are on aspects though. I have met some nice Virgoan (one being my best friend in school who unfortunately I have lost contact with), Gems (my partner) and Sags (a cherished relative) too.

miamiu

08-27-2006, 02:41 PM

I'm with the other libra that says virgos and libras dont work out. i frankly just don't understand them. I have come to the point where I'm not sure whether they are just being a nice person, or because they are actually interested in me to be in a relationship. Big problem with me because I do often find a deep connection to them that is hard to make go anywhere. For example there was a coworker I got to know fairly well and at the beginning of the friendship he would do things like sit by me at break and wouldnt say much and i would have to be like is there something you want or need? Typically, I feel like if you have the balls to begin an interaction with me shouldn't the person begin the interaction be the most vocal. Virgos remind me of someone that is an unintentional tease. Well I ended up getting his numbr he quit a few weeks later I called him up out of curosity cus I hadn't seen him at work for awhile. I left messages for about 2 weeks later after I had spoken with him and no return message. I did eventually get ahold of him and he made the comment to me that we should hang out and at that point I didn't feel he was sincere because it takes less time to leave a message than hang out so I tossed his number. I doubt I will ever understand how virgos can be in any type of relatonship when they draw someone into them and then leave them hanging.

Another example is I'm bi and I attend a club and this bartender there has been charging less for some drinks and gave me a vip card with his name and number on it to get in free. About 2 weeks ago went to the same place, but at another bar and he walked by me and flashed me a smile and said hi. Later, that evening im in the middle of the dance floor i feel 2 hands around my side for about 5 seconds and turned my head and i saw him walking by. I decided to go to his bar and see if he wants to talk or whatever and he completely clams up. So I go ahead an introduce myself.

Lynns

08-27-2006, 06:41 PM

I'm with the other libra that says virgos and libras dont work out. i frankly just don't understand them. I have come to the point where I'm not sure whether they are just being a nice person, or because they are actually interested in me to be in a relationship. Big problem with me because I do often find a deep connection to them that is hard to make go anywhere. For example there was a coworker I got to know fairly well and at the beginning of the friendship he would do things like sit by me at break and wouldnt say much and i would have to be like is there something you want or need? Typically, I feel like if you have the balls to begin an interaction with me shouldn't the person begin the interaction be the most vocal. Virgos remind me of someone that is an unintentional tease. Well I ended up getting his numbr he quit a few weeks later I called him up out of curosity cus I hadn't seen him at work for awhile. I left messages for about 2 weeks later after I had spoken with him and no return message. I did eventually get ahold of him and he made the comment to me that we should hang out and at that point I didn't feel he was sincere because it takes less time to leave a message than hang out so I tossed his number. I doubt I will ever understand how virgos can be in any type of relatonship when they draw someone into them and then leave them hanging.

I think that guy is shy - he admires you but probably feels apprehensive to take it to the next level. Drawing someone in and leaving them hanging is more like what I experience with a Libran guy (I'm Libran as well). At least there is stability once you've got something meaningful going on with a virgo and they genuinely like you. But with a Libran guy, you never really know where you stand. He is evasive and fickle, although charming, gentle, lovable etc etc. And he leaves me hanging alot of the time - to figure out things for myself, when I need and want his support. I find virgos to be there more of the time than a Libra guy would. Or maybe it's just his chart.

It was also mentioned that Librans are desperate for a relationship, but i want and need my space. Probably for Saturn in Libra (I'm part of the generation and it conjuncts my sun) we are more afraid and apprhensive of giving our all in relationships and tend to hold back, even though we really want to do so.

FishNChips62

08-27-2006, 09:48 PM

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Missa

09-18-2006, 06:31 PM

Hey ! well, i saw something just like that on this website with sun sign compatibility..I can`t put my finger on the exact site but I found this from about.com that is similar. You'll notice they list the last part of your little list =] ..and also the opposite sign (from your next to last cat.)
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If you figured that out all by yourself, I commend you!! but really, i think we can pretty much say it`s the traditional concept.

Of course we all learn the basic sign compatibility from astrology books and websites, but I've noticed that there is lots of variation. Some sources say, that for example a Libra is compatible with Taurus because they're both ruled by Venus, some say that same sign relationships are the perfect match - some others that they're not the best one and full of fighting, some say that you're usually attracted to your opposing sign - some others that opposing signs are usually too different, etc. The only basic thing that every source I've seen so far seems to agree on is that signs that form trine or sextile get along nicely, and signs that form square are not the "perfect match", but what comes to the rest it seems to vary depending on the source. That list is based on my own experience, and what I've read from books and on the internet.

Sanem

09-27-2006, 09:01 AM

A thought I had some time ago:

Aries attracts Libra, Scorpio attracts Taurus.

Which means Mars attracts Venus twice.

Kristine

09-27-2006, 06:51 PM

I'm a Virgo--seven times over (sun, mercury, venus, mars all in virgo. Moon, Saturn, Uranus in sixth house, but all in Sagittarius). My sun, mercury, venus, and mars all fall in the fourth house...giving me somewhat Cancerian traits and values.

When I was younger, I was unbelievably attracted to Scorpios. I think this attraction was due in part to having a Scorpio mother (so I'm thinking it was almost a subconcious comfort being around them). In middle school, my closest friend was a Scorpio. In high school, my closest friend was another Scorpio. One of the more serious crushes I had in high school was on a Scorpio. I simply clicked with them and there was always mutual respect between us. Of all the Scorpios I've met (and there are A LOT), I think there's only one I simply could not come to like. I found that, lately however, I've been breaking away from my Scorpio fixation. Don't know why.

Nowadays, I'm more attracted to the other water signs: Cancer and Pisces, particularly Cancer. Simply put, I can really connect with and understand Cancers. We're both lovers of the past, nostalgia, quiet, sensitive. And they're incredibly emotionally supportive--a trait I admire a lot, as I've always been taxed when it comes to expressing emotions and feelings. I really value and appreciate all the Cancers in my life (there weren't a lot when I was young, but I find that as I grow older...I tend to flock to Cancers or they flock to me). I love them so much.

Pisces! Of all the signs in the zodiac, it is Pisces I most admire. The traits they possess are the very traits I'm looking to really develop in myself: particularly artistry and compassion. Honestly, I really don't know what to say of my connection to this sign. I simply find them to be beautiful souls.

Romantic relationships-wise, I noticed I attract Aquarius and Leos. Admittedly, I'm attracted to them. I don't know what it is about these signs. I'm guessing it's their freedom streak (well Aquarius is more freedom-oriented. With Leos, it's more or less simple extroversion and a desire to "roam" the earth). I myself need plenty of freedom and space in an intimate relationship.

Geminis are my best friends! No sign can compare with the humor and laughter a Gemini brings into my life. My best, best friend ever is a Gemini. She's a natural comedian, sending her "audience" into a fit of painful laughter. She brings me up when I'm down and literally lights up my life. Love her to bits. When I look for an instant bond, I always look to a Gemini. It almost never fails.

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Like DainBramaged, I tend to observe sun sign relationships.

Ones I've noticed quite a bit are:

Scorpio and Gemini (Yes, Gemini! Mostly as friends though)
Scorpio and Capricorn (Friends and lovers)
Scorpio and Cancer (A tender bond)
Scorpio and Virgo (Friends and lovers)
Pisces and Sagittarius (These two are inseperable!)
Gemini and Virgo (Partners in crime)
Taurus and Capricorn (Like Pis/Sag, inseperable!)
Leo and Aquarius (The best of friends)
Cancer and Virgo (Go together real well)

Obiously, my observations seem highly subjective and personal (I mean look at all the Scorpio combos...and Virgo combos. I know too many Scorpios. And well I'M a Virgo). But I've definitely noticed these partnerships to be frequent.

*squibble*

09-29-2006, 02:43 AM

Has anyone noticed how the adjacent signs seem to relate to each other? Some of my most disapointing relationships have been Virgo (if I fall for them, it's hard). I am Leo, Virgo rising, and it's like I want to be more like them... Even if there isn't much to respect about them, I'll find something.
And Cancer, this man who sent me gifts despite the clearly unrequited emotions for years was Cancer. I found it hard to even be around him, it definitely did not bring out my best.

The sign that follows seems to be the sign we more often chase after, if we are attracted to an adjacent sign.
The sign that comes first seems to be pursuing the later sign.

This seems even true within signs. My best friend is Sag at 29+ degrees and her boyfriend is early Sag. He wants to get married and she is breaking up even though she's madly in love- she wants to travel the world and date around.
I've been dating other Leos lately. When they are early in their birthdays, it seems to work well.
I'm kind of surprised I've never noticed this relationship between adjacent signs mentioned. So far, it seems pretty accurate for describing the dynamics within those relationships.

Belgianmoonguy

01-31-2007, 07:25 PM

Sun Sign only doesn't do it
Yeah my only love was a Pisces... So that works
But water signs are to emotional for me... i don't like drowning, i'm drowning allready in my own world
Passionate short lived relations with Aqua's Gem and Aries... the aqua's are still in my life...
Never had something with an Earth Sun Sign, although i have Moon at the end of Virgo and Venus in the middle of Taurus...

Chasing after a Leo... happened (sign after Cancer)... Worked for a while
Gemini's chasing after me... well the chasing was mutual and fun (have Eros in Gem... an asteroid of love and sex)

I tend to befriend and love with not compatible signs... I need Air/ Fire ppl in my life, cause i'm so Water/ Earth...

With love it's: Pisces, Aqua, Gem, Aries
friendship: Sag/ Gem/ Aqua/ Aries/ Pisces/ Leo/ Cancer/ Virgo
erotic: the ones mentioned with love and Sag...

And please, no Scorpio Moons anymore (oh this is Sun Sign, sry folks)

astrobhadauria

02-01-2007, 06:24 PM

Dear,
From mine readings !
1st with 2nd
1st is making demand from 2nd and 2nd use like a dustbin!:eek:
1st with 3rd
1st always try to making contect and 3rd using like a property.:p
1st with 4th
1st always dealing like a heart and 4th dealing like a work.:o
1st with 5th
1st always want to read but 5th make faith like a God.:34:
1st with 6th
1st always in service and 6th always make insults.:eek:
1st with 7th
1st always want to live with him and 7th also want to always live him.:D
1st with 8th
1st always make insults and 8th always in full service.;)
1st with 9th
1st like a child,and 9th always like a Faith.
1st with 10th
1st always have tensions of works,and 10th have always heart feelings.
1st with 11th
1st always like a property,11th always to use like a telephone.:cool:
1st with 12th
1st always want to die,and 12th always use him like a doller.:60:

pixie1982

02-01-2007, 06:53 PM

pixiequix -
I would have to disagree about chasing the sign that comes after yours -
I am a leo and have never been attracted to a virgo, or even had any close virgo friends. Strangely I get a lot of Virgo's chasing me, and am not attracted to them - ever, I have no idea why.

I think that you need to look at the whole chart. For example I have no Capricorn or Aquarian friends or lovers - and I think perhaps because I have any planets in those signs?

P xx

Lissa

02-02-2007, 01:29 PM

My opinion on this:

Sagitarius-Aquarius: The atraction is very powerful between these two.Altough they usually have different tastes/opinions,they enjoy each other's company and have lots of fun together.Their enthusiasm is somewhat contagious.Their relationship has lots of ups and downs but they can stay together for a long while(know two couples who have been together for more than3years now).

Cancer-Cancer: A very discrete couple.They're very sensitive and in tune with each others moods.The people around usually think they're boring and lack a certain passion,but they really enjoy each others company and support each other through hard times.

Cancer-Pisces: Both are very sensitive and caring,always trying to meet each others needs.Cancer helps the lunatic Piscean stabilyzing his/hers emotions.While Pisces apreciates the support,Cancer admires Pisces imagination.

Cancer-Taurus: Another quiet couple.No one knows they're together until they mention it.Both are very stuborn,but also sensitive.They're very committed to one another and give each other lots of security.

Aries-Sagitarius: They share enthusiasm for life and a need for independence.Aries is usually a little bit more possessive.They give each other lots of room,which keeps their relationship fresh and interesting.

Sagitarius-Pisces: They atract each other like magnets.Sagitarius apreciates Pisces imagination and idealism,while Pisces admires Sagitarius enthusiasm for life.Once they get together,is clear for everyone that they don't really understand each other.Sagitarius is the first one to give up.