what means he in my life?

[ioni]

hi.
He is older than me (about 11 years). I like him, but I don't know what can we do together.

25.06, 22:00, Focsani (45n41,27e11) Romania.

Thanks!

[Summery Joy]

Who is he.. officially? A friend? A colleague? Someone you're dating?

[ioni]

It's my boyfriend. But sometimes says that he likes me and tells me about our future, sometimes that he don't wanna make me suffering....I like him a lot, but I don't know what he wants from me.

[Summery Joy]

Alright,

I got the ASC at Capricorn 19:56

You are signified by Saturn, the ruler of the first house. It is at Leo 9:35 in the 7th house.

He is signified by Mercury, the ruler of the 5th house. It is at Cancer 28:18 in the turned 3rd house (the radix 7th).

Saturn suffers major essential dibility by being in Leo. It is however in its own face with minor essential dignity. It has accidental dignity by being in the 7th house. It is received by Mercury by term.

Saturn is has just separated from Jupiter Rx, the ruler of the 11th house, which receives Saturn by triplicity. Saturn is not VOC for the time being.

Mercury is essentially peregrine, but has accidental dignity by being in the 7th house. It is received by Saturn by term but is in the detriment of Saturn. Mercury is at the end of the sign it is currently in. Not long after its changes signs, it will perfect a sextile with Venus, a natural significator of love and women and the ruler of his turned 5th house in this chart.

The last lunar aspect in this sign is a conjunction with Mercury.

That was just what the chart looks like. I am under the impression that the emotional connection between the two of you is not very deep. It seems that he's comfortable around you and that you like him a little more than he likes you. However, you're not exactly totally in love with him. It's just the notion of committment and a long-term relationship that is appealing to you. On the other hand, he has other things on his mind. When he shares them with you, you feel that you are going in the path of a serious relationship. But the fact of the matter is, he's just communicating his thoughts.

It seems that you have a good shot at making it work with him if you put your mind to it. However, he seems to be at the end of a phase and the start of another. It's likely that he'll meet another women in this transitional stage. It's up to you whether to forgive and fight or let it all go.

The answer to you question, "what does he mean in your life?" is that he is a guy that you like but cannot control. Continuing the relationship may be challenging. Ending the relationship will be sad, but not devistating.

Good luck.