old flame

[jjgirl67]

hi again! I'm asking another question about a former love. the question is whether or not he and I will ever have a relationship, of any sort, again. I always ejoyed his wit and felt on top of things when I was with him. We lead very separate lives now and I may be moving far away. I just wondered what horary astrology would point to in terms of a future with him as a friend or anything else ar possibly nothing ever again. Thanks for looking!!

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/chart.php?y=2006&m=6&d=8&h=18&min=29&lat=0&long=0&zone=16

[Summery Joy]

How serious was the relationship the first time around? Was there any commitment of any kind?

[jjgirl67]

We were not actually in a committed relationship though came very close. I blew it though and ******* the whole thing up--I was just so totally crazy about him I couldn't handle it. He'd invited me to move in with him but I just couldn't for the life of me believe that just maybe I could have the man I was dreaming of. So we just maintained a rather flirtatious friendship with some on/off intimacy. He was always there for me when I wanted business advice. However, then I married someone else. I believe he did too!! I still think about him often and he still shows up in my dreams. I miss him. It's a long shot but seeing as though I'm most likely going to be divorcing I thought you never know, he might too and maybe one day....

Thanks for looking

[Summery Joy]

OK!!!

Since the "old flame" was never a committed relationship, the guy is a 5th house matter.

Your significator is Jupiter Rx while his is Mars. They are less then 7 degrees from perfecting a square, but there's frustration as the Moon will perfect a trine with Mars before it meets Jupiter. The Moon the radical 8th house (the turned 4th) and is the natural significators of women in general.

The answer to your question is no. You may come close, but it will stop before it begins probably because of your difficult past together or because of another woman.

This shouldn't be a very bad or unexpected answer to your question. You have to understand that we always return to thinking about our exes when we are going through a break-up. It doesn't mean that we do desire them. It's just the good ol' memories that make us feel this way.

[jjgirl67]

Thanks sorehearted. You're totally right. I find him irresistably attractive and have always been smitten since the first day I laid eyes on him but this is in the past now. I'm sure I'm looking for distractions from my current unhappy marriage. I have to say, this guy was so dynamic and embodies a lot of qualities I'd like for myself, maybe that's what I need to master and why he keeps showing up in my dreams.

Thanks again.