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05-06-2006, 04:07 AM
I've been very caught up in schooling and life and haven't had time to really pay attention to someone who was a close friend of mine. I think he is having some tough times right now. I had a really strange dream with him in it last night and I usually don't have such dreams.
I was wondering how he is feeling?
Here is the correct chart! :oops:
Thanks to all who help!
05-06-2006, 10:54 AM
Are you sure about the chart? It says 5th of April....
05-06-2006, 03:07 PM
Thanks to Barry-Ann for letting me know the chart was the wrong month.
I had another erie dream lastnight with my friend. He didn't seem too well in it either.
05-06-2006, 03:14 PM
Just to clarify: why do you want to know how he is feeling about you while you are worried about him? I mean: is he a friend-friend, how do you feel about him?? Important to the question.
05-06-2006, 03:27 PM
He is a friend, a very good friend and I care about him very much.
I think I'm just trying to make sure that its nothing I did to make him upset. To clarify...how is he feeling about himself? would be a more app. question.
05-06-2006, 03:50 PM
I don't intend to go into great detail on this, nor usurp Barry-Ann's chance at analysing the chart, but just a few pointers that stand out to me.
I think he is having some tough times right now.
I think that he is too, and perhaps this is why he came to visit you in the dreamscape.
His significator is the Moon as Cancer descends. The Moon is in Leo in the eighth house, and the eight house suggests that he is experiencing some measure of anxiety, probably through some sort of loss. The Moon is in a fixed sign, so this unhappiness will continue for some time, not a pain that will be easy to get over. This is emphasised by the fact that the Moon is void of course, so he will remain with his pain. It is almost as if he is grieving or mourning over something, not necessarily a death, but something which has been lost and cannot be replaced. The house that represents him also contains both malefic planets, Mars and Saturn, pain and regret. The Moon is peregrine in Leo, and so feels quite lost.
He isn't feeling good, and if you have any way to contact him he would probably appreciate the support of his friends right now.
You are Saturn, and in the seventh house this shows your inclination of thought about him and concern for him. You are both in the same sign of Leo but separated by houses. So you are with him in spirit and he is aware of you, but whatever it is that he has lost or is losing you will be unable to relate to it, so there is little assistance that you can provide other than moral support.
If you can contact him then do. He isn't okay.
By the way, I use the Descendant for your friend and not the eleventh cusp for 'friend', because he is the significant 'other' involved in this question. As an individual and not as a group of people he is the seventh, not the eleventh. If the question refered to friendS, in the collective, I would use the eleventh.
05-06-2006, 06:02 PM
Thank you for your help!
With my friend, it sometimes feels like he is always depressed, yet he is very talented at covering his real feelings with his goofy exterior. But, recently he has been quite reclusive. I plan on contacting him today to ask how he is.
Thank you Draco!
05-06-2006, 06:06 PM
I plan on contacting him today to ask how he is.
When you get in touch, could you come back to let me know what it was that is upsetting him? That way I can know how right or wrong I was, or if in the details I can see more in the chart.
05-06-2006, 10:27 PM
Well, I although I disagree with Draco on this and have used the 11th house to rule your friend, I've reached the same conclusion. My way, Mars is his significator and it is in fall. It's separating from Venus and applying to Uranus. Maybe he's breaking up or ending a significant relationship of some sort. Anyway, Mars in Cancer is not a good sign. he's having a hard time.
I hopes everything turns out well. Do update us if you can.
05-06-2006, 10:34 PM
have used the 11th house to rule your friend, I've reached the same conclusion.
Interesting. However, would Mars not apply to Jupiter retrograde after separating from Venus, before Uranus?
Using the eleventh, Jupiter is in his turned twelfth.
05-07-2006, 03:42 PM
Oh yeah! That's right , Darco. Didn't see the minutes on Jupiter Rx there.
That doesn't make things any better. Jupiter is an accidental malefic being in Rx motion. It's a co-ruler of the 12th house by placement showing that the friend could in fact be in a depression or something of the sort. It also rules the turned 2nd and 5th houses. And I believe Jupiter is in what is called Via Combusta. I'm inclined to think that the friend has problems relating to romance or work.. or both.
05-07-2006, 06:54 PM
I tried calling him 2 times on Saturday...with no answer. He might have been outside doing yard work (It was a lovely sunny day! 8) ) However, I just recieved an email from him with some pictures of his new kitties...he sent this message to just about all of his family and his closest pals.
I will call him today and let you guys know what's up.
05-08-2006, 02:06 AM
I talked to him over the phone today. He has been "ok" but having some troubles with his brothers over something to do with inheritances. He just seemed, well, blah. He just said that things with him weren't great, but they weren't horrible either. He feels that the lackluster of life has been lost.
We had a nice, hour long talk and a few laughs here and there. I think he is just "lost."
05-08-2006, 01:22 PM
Inheritence? Hmm.. I figured the 2nd house there meant his money in general so I assumed it's from work. My bad.
I think maybe you should keep in touch with him. See, the last lunar aspect in this sign is a trine with Pluto Rx in the 2nd house. Although the trine is a smoth aspect, Pluto is a natural malefic with its negative strength hightened by the Rx motion. It's also in the house causing some of his problems, money.
If ou don't like using modern planets, the last lunar aspect would be a square with Jupiter Rx in Via Combusta in the 12th house. Jupiter is an accidental malefic in this chart and Via Combusta is not helping. There's a chnace he may end up going through of a phase of psychological ups and downs.
Whichever last lunar aspect you choose to consider, I think your friend will need some support for a while to come.
05-08-2006, 03:05 PM
I do plan to keep in touch with him more than usual because of his emotional inconsistancies. I think I do have a very positive effect on his emotions. He really seems to cheer up when I call him or stop in to see him.
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