watching me???

[Barry-ann]

Hi!
This is not really about communication, but not about relationships either.
I've been receiving anonymous phone calls since I met my former lover. I've always considered it as a sign of his utter powerlessness, which was the reason the relationship failed. I love him, but things could just not be, and I won't settle for less then everything.
We broke off in August. Yesterday I realized they invariably start when I've been away from my home.
The question is 'Is he watching me?'
Mars in 12, in Cancer= my sign, and close to me, suggests someone is indeed watching me, secretively, hidden. Ruler phonecalls is Sun, in 11 again, and Moon will trine Sun. Also, Sun is in Aries, Mars' sign. The relationship went definitely downwards when we tried to work together.
I'm not scared at all, mind you! I'm 100% sure he does not mean any harm. Just very curious!

Mars is ruler of 11, friends, and of 6. Neither do I meet him on a daily basis (not at all in fact).
And he is not a friend anymore.
Any ideas??

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Thanks!
B-A

[Barry-ann]

Please, anyone??
The more I look at this chart, the less I understand it.
Ruler of calls is Sun in 11. It is very strong there, feels at home, received by Mars, in exaltation, own triplicity, in Saturns term and Venuses face.
I am in 6, received by Jupiter, in Sun's triplicity, Saturns term and face, so I'm peregrine.
Also, the only aspects Moon will make, is a conjunction to rx Pluto, and trine to that strong Sun, which will change signs soon.
Mars closing in on me represents a hidden admirer, a man I consider a friend, since he is ruler of 11.
Maybe the calls (Sun) and Mars represent different guys??
My placement in 6, in intercepted Sag, bothers me. I'm very involved in creating a career, but that fits 10 more then 6. My daily routine includes a lot of cleaning and clearing clutter right now, but that would be 4 rather then 6, wouldn't it?
Moon is received by Jupiter in 5.
I hope there's someone out there who can shed a light!
Thanks, B-A