Are you a night time born and over 42?

[Tora]

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[katydid]

Ok, thinking back to age 42-44--a pretty prosperous and happy time. Our kids were very young, age 2 and 6 , so i was around a lot of younger moms in play groups etc. We had just moved into a new home to be eligible for better school district,so we were making new friends and working on our back yard a lot.

[lissyloulou]

Hi Tora

I'm a night time born person (I think, Sun lower part of chart). I'm 42 at the moment so I guess I'm in that bracket right now that you are talking about.

I wouldn't say it's a horrible period. But I would say that I have had to evaluate a lot over the last 12 months.


Often a rather problematic period when you can find yourself in isolation, have an impression that everyone has turned away from you and that nobody can hear or notice you. It may be difficult to find your place in life in these years. Some relationships or activities might come to their end. You will need to reevaluate your aims, your plans, and probably choose a new direction.

I wouldn't say I was in isolation at all but problematic yes this has been a difficult year. My husbands job ended late last year, my job is not secure any longer. We planned to move house this year, but plans have had to be shelved and this may well have a long term knock on effect.

I wouldn't say things are bad, but anything I have wanted to do has hit obstacles and I feel very much like I'm treading water at the moment.


did it improve right after South Node Period (into Sun period) finished?

Erm, I'd be happy to tell you when that happens. When will that happen? I'm sorry I'm still pretty much a newbie at this stuff.

[BlackRing]

My SN period began this year and my life is a bit changed actually, surely does match the description.
Good news is it'll be over in 2 yrs time.

[DiDi]

hi, and well cant tell ya how strange it was just now to read what ive just gone through..
i just turned 44 and was born at 10.50pm

I would say that 2 yrs ago i became lost within myself and and felt invisable.. quite strange since my personality has allways been so social and upbeat, positive thinker and people usually acknowlege me very enthusiastically.

I got board with my job and started seeking something more satisfying..(havent found it yet) people are not as warm to me as they once was.(didnt think too hard about it, not everyone has to like me) LOL
My family (although they are hard to please type) dissowned me ( I didnt drop everything to please my brother 4 my mum) sister took it as a opportunity to get closer to my mum as i wasnt around.. (shes a strange one, she could have done that anytime she wanted to) but estranged herself away from us also. broke my heart and still does, still cant believe whats happened a few yrs ago now.. actually did.

It is like im invisable.. so iam now 44! things should change, I should have learnt my south nodes lessons.. its 22sag in my 2nd house
so money earnt.. that fits as i am now trying to find out how long term i can settle into a steady income.. thanks for starting this thread tora!