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EvilPixyScorp
04-10-2006, 04:32 PM
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Back Story: Please humor me & read this vent....

My mom has been acting very weird the past 2 1/2 months.
Back in Sept, one of my best buds, Joe, who I have no romantic interest in mind
you(so thats not why I'm mad), and her ended up really liking each other.
I assumed it was a phase, because she hasn't dated in YEARS(she's attractive, just never got "out there").
At first I was traumatized because it was so unexpected, then I saw how nice he was to her & she wasn't lonely anymore..So got over that...We would all do stuff together, and it was a high point of us getting along, household stuff was getting fixed in record time too, lol.

Slowly, I noticed the dynamic changing for the worst...She started nagging me about stupid things, snapping, every word was a "Do this, Why is this like this?".
When my sis Sarah's moving day came, she didn't arrive on time to help...leaving ALL the heavy lifting to Sarah's in-laws.... then complained the entire way driving up, as if it ruined it her weekend. *rolls eyes* Sarah was hurt.
Sis came into town for a few hours yesterday, Joe was offering to leave so it could be "family time", but she said, "Nooo that's HELL, Don't leave!"..In front of me!
And asked about Easter get together, "What do ya want me to do, hide easter eggs??"
All of a sudden she's loosening the grip on her wallet strings for Joe...Offering a new car, putting him on life insurance, weed etc! Never even helped me when I need dental surgery, tuition.


I know that's alot to digest, but you needed all the info to read the chart fully.
Her Progressed Lilith is conj. ASC now, BIG surprise there! LoL She'd eat us if she could, no doubt.
And that Pr. Venus conj. Saturn would be an internal cooling of any affection, love.
Can you see anything in SA to indicate stuff I mentioned above?

Kite
04-10-2006, 05:28 PM
She started acting weird when SA Pluto progressed to natal Sun in her natal 11th house. She has Pluto in exact square to Venus in her natal and inconjunct her Uranus/Jup conjunction in 9 (Jup/Ur trines Venus for the younger man) Jup also rules 2 with SA Neptune approaching the cusp which might cause some confusion or deception around her possesions.

Ruler of natal 5, Mars (with Chiron) is SA in natal 4th house (keeping the romance home and with the family)

Secondary Progressed Mercury which rules her 8th house is also approaching exact conjunction with her natal Venus. Venus rules 7 and 11. Friendship/Partner/Lover - sibling rivalry.

wilsontc
04-10-2006, 06:16 PM
Pixy,

You also might consider that transiting Jupiter (expansion) is conjuncting your mother's Ascendant (self). Since she has almost all her planets on the left side of the chart, your mother tends to focus on herself. With Jupiter conjuncting the Ascendant, she is more expansive in her self-focus. Since Scorpio (transformation, also joint resources, sex) modifies Jupiter, this indicates that now is a time for your mother to focus on joint resources. Things could really heat up with your mother when Jupiter conjuncts her Venus (relationships)! ;)

Relating from transits,

Tim