Not an Aquarius!!!

[Raxuell]

I am a Capricorn with Aquarius Moon, my boyfriend is Aquairus with Capricorn Moon, and he's driving me crazy! Aquarius men are by far the most "unhuman", like sometimes feels I am unhuman after awhile being around him, I don't know, I just had to post this bc it's driving me crazy like being on another planet than other people when I am out in public people are always staring at me, maybe bc of my striking beauty or bc they know I am an intruder from outer space. I had a Tauras as a boyfriend, he brought me down to earth, so did Sagittarius, but Aquarius, god help me with this one.:eek:

[Penitent?]

You don't want to be human anyways, do you? Humans are so...savage

[Jenna Jupiter]

I am a Capricorn with Aquarius Moon, my boyfriend is Aquairus with Capricorn Moon, and he's driving me crazy! Aquarius men are by far the most "unhuman", like sometimes feels I am unhuman after awhile being around him, I don't know, I just had to post this bc it's driving me crazy like being on another planet than other people when I am out in public people are always staring at me, maybe bc of my striking beauty or bc they know I am an intruder from outer space. I had a Tauras as a boyfriend, he brought me down to earth, so did Sagittarius, but Aquarius, god help me with this one.:eek:

Aquarius Men can act like children sometimes - Agree.
What have he done?;)

/JJ

[Nexus7]

I am an android.

Raxuel, is this boy's Sun conjunct your Aquarius Moon?

Sometimes Sun/Moon contacts can be a litle Cancer/Leo-ish in colour - you may come across as being pretty aloof and cool to other people a lot of the time yourself.

However. if this guy has his Sun on your Moon, what you may get is that he will pick up on all your lunar sensitivities and moodiness, where you are over-subjective, take things personally and so on. But it could depend on what is going on with your moon natally, if so.

It could be a sun/sun hing insofar that he may, so to speak, get your goat, if he treats things you hold dear with irreverence.

Of course, hat you could really be up against is a strong Saturn link between your charts. That can be known to create a sense of aloof, cold behaviour.

[hermetic]

I'd blame his Capricorn Moon, I've had a guy Aries Sun and Cappy Moon and he was the same.

[seiw83]

i would blame capricorn moon as well, because i have similar position7 th house) and i am sometimes so cold and unhuman. but there is one positive thing, if you show real yourself and he stop calulating it will be ok. i found people with capricorn moon often dont show emotions, we keep them closed. all emotions, and it does not mean we dont have them at all, this position mean that there is a very strong security emotion hatch. you just need to find way and good luck.

[waybread]

Folks, I realize that this is the "Greenhorn's Lounge" but sometimes a little common sense goes a long way. Raxuell, if your BF is annoying you so deeply, maybe it is time to end the relationship. Nobody's ego--yours or his--can stand this kind of tension for very long.

On Planet Aquarius, Aquarians are normal, and it is the other signs that are out of sync. On planet Capricorn, Capricorns are normal, and the other signs are the "foreigners." Signs that need a lot of drama, clinginess, or a lot of emotionalism may find Saturn-ruled Capricorns and Aquarians to be cold and aloof, but that isn't these signs' problems. Aquarians do fine with people who respect their need for space and privacy. Capricorns do fine with people who respect their seriousness and ambition.

Each sign is assigned to a different element. To Aquarius, an air sign, ideas are very real. To Capricorn, and earth sign, material things and practical matters are very real (to paraphrase astrologer Stephen Arroyo.) So the sun in Aquarius needs to identify with ideas and ideals. The sun in Capricorn needs to identify with the material world. With the moon in Capricorn, one's emotions and feelings often take a back seat to practical matters. With the moon in Aquarius, one's emotions and feelings take a back seat to an over-riding need for personal autonomy.

Ideally, two people with this mix of earth, air, and Saturn could join forces to work to make ideas and ideals concrete in some way

I think the problems arise when one or both members of a relationship expect or even demand that the other person meet their needs, rather than allowing the other person to express himself in a way that is authentic.

I have known several people with Aquarian moons, and while I found them curiously emotionally detached, they actually had lots of friends and were dedicated to one or more causes. I have the sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aquarius (with my sun and Mars trine Uranus) and I really value both my privacy and my right to make independent judgements about most things.

One thing I have noticed about some people with heavy Capricorn emphasis, is that they have enormous staying power--even in situations that would have driven others away long ago--no doubt, due to Saturn's influence. But sometimes a relationship just isn't meant to work out.

[starlink]

I am a Capricorn with Aquarius Moon, my boyfriend is Aquairus with Capricorn Moon, and he's driving me crazy! Aquarius men are by far the most "unhuman"

Raquel, this statement is seen only from your own perspective dont forget.

Waybread has said it very well indeed by writing:


I think the problems arise when one or both members of a relationship expect or even demand that the other person meet their needs, rather than allowing the other person to express himself in a way that is authentic.


This is learned with age, when we become more mature.

Apart from all the wise words Waybread wrote, I would also like to remind you that even though we are in the Greenhorns Lounge, it is still a place for learning, not chatting. We have a separate chat department for that.


We acknowledge that you have the heart of an astrologer. Come in, become one!
is written on the top of this page as you might have seen. I hope you are here to learn astrology together with us. Maybe you could post the chart of yourself and your boyfriend so people can see what the problem zones are between you two. Usually having the Moons in each others sign is a good thing. So maybe there are other factors to look at.

Starlink