House question

[lillyjgc]

Querent asking when her lover will totally leave his wife.He is separated from his wife and has been for almost a year,but has taken no steps toward a permanent move away from the marital home.It's a timing question.
My first thought was to take querent as H1 and the lover as H5 and his wife as H11 cusp. Is this correct?
Many thanks,
Lillyjgc

[archergirl]

Hi lillyjgc,

It's better to give the querent H1, the lover H7, and the lover's wife whatever planet is best aspected by L7...Saturn or Venus or the Moon will usually 'pop' up, and the Moon is the natural ruler of wives. Try this way first.

AG:)

[lillyjgc]

Ok Thanks AG, I will try that.Interestingly the 7th house is full and mercury is right on the desc. I guess that gives the querent the sun and the quesited Saturn and Mercury is for the wife.
I might need help with the chart too as its a timing question. If so I'll post it up on the appropriate Board.
Again,Thanks.
Lillyjgc