New to board - hi! First question, any help appreciated.

[interplanet janet]

Newbie here, first question - any help appreciated.

I've been divorced for almost three years and have yet to find decent boyfriend material. I attract a lot of men, but they've either been the squirrely, evasive, I-love-you-go-away type or the I-have-problems-and-I-want-you-to-fix-me type. Will I meet someone this year who's a solid candidate for a healthy relationship?

4/4/06, 10:09 a.m., Albuquerque, NM, Mountain Daylight Savings Time.

Thank you so much!!!

Janet

[Summery Joy]

I got the ASC at Gemini 16:44 . This is not very descriptive of your question that is related to relationships, since Gemini is a very free sign and doesn't like commitment very much.

Anyway, you are signified by Mercury in Pisces in the 10th house. The significator has essential dibility but accidental dignity. I think this means that there's nothing you can do push push the process of finding a boyfriend forward, but you happen to be in a good, attractive place.

Using the 7th house, Jupiter is Rx in Scoprio in the 6th house. Mercury and Scoprio have just separated from a trine (2 minutes ago). Maybe this shows your divorce? But you said you've been divorced for the 3 years. Jupiter is in Scoprio, which is descriptive of the I-love-you-go-away types. Maybe you've just broken up with one of those?

Using the 5th house, Venus is in Aquarius in the 10th house. It's is essential peregrine but accidentally dignified also.

There's no applicationm or translation or collection of light bwteen any of the significators. I'm sorry, but this gives a No answer. And to be honest, that Gemini ASC and Mercury in the 10th house suggest that a better option for you is to stay single for a while and focus on your work or career.

[interplanet janet]

Thank you for the analysis. Yes, I did break up with a noncommittal guy about a month ago; you were right. And since I graduate from college in August this year, I'd best focus on finishing up and then sending out a barrage of resumes instead of worrying about whether some guy is going to show up for me. While this isn't the answer I wanted, it's the advice I'd best follow.

You're good! Thanks again, and have a beautiful day.

J.

[EvilPixyScorp]

Well..Never is so harsh!!
Astrology isn't set in stone, free will owns it. I'm sure some new prospects
will pop up this year...either serious or the FWB type if you
honestly put yourself out there.

You are in Jupiter's sign(this break up made you feel how you
do now) plus weakened, at the end of your rope.
5H (Casual romance, fun, sex) is also Mercury, I can
see why you'd be confused!! This dude really did a number on ya.
Actually he may try to get back into your good graces once
Jupiter goes direct again...But you'll be totally not into it.
I agree though that you would be happier to not worry about this right now,
career, your creativity are better to focus on. A watched pot never boils as they say!

The Sabian for you is...

A GROUP OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE OVEREATEN AND ENJOYED IT
Perhaps you have overindulged in some way. This can be through eating or it can be through material excess, spending too much, doing anything to extremes. There can be a feeling of pleasure and satisfaction, but there must be a return to more down to earth matters or work.
The Caution: Self-indulgence, largely through the senses. The "haves" and the "have nots". Obesity. Gluttony. Overspending.

It says that mundane details will benefits now..after all the BS from previously.

Then Mercury(You) move into Jupiter's term/face.
Mars rules this charts 6th house of coworkers, daily tasks, health.
It again point to being being under the control of these things...Unromantic, but needed. :/
Silver on the cloud is ... Mercury changes to a much better place, Aries, in 13 degrees. At that time it will be in Jupiter's (Career/7H) terms, and Mars face. I think deep down, in about 13 weeks...You will be much more receptive & attracting to potential suitors, more compatible ones...Venture to suggest even a coworker would connect you with this guy. :)
Also- maybe a positive connection with a new business partnership(7H is this too).

Good luck- Keep up posted!

[interplanet janet]

A bajillion thanks, Scorp. Yeah, he did do a number on me. Big time. I was really depressed about how he was treating me in February and dropped about ten pounds. I broke up with him on March 4 when Mercury and Jupiter went retro (he's a Sag, ha) and promptly gained that 10 lbs back this past month, plus I've been indulging in a little too much retail therapy. The Sabian Symbol is an apt description of how it's been... I was too jittery and distracted to focus on school to the extent that it deserves, and now that the end of the semester is a month away, I need to get busy and catch up. I'm hoping Saturn turning direct tomorrow will help in that regard - I have Aqua rising and it's been sitting in my 6th house. I've resumed my healthy diet and exercise routine this week, though.

Anyway, thank you so much for your analysis and encouragement, and who needs those stinky boys, anyway???

[EvilPixyScorp]

LoL!

I feel ya on that weight gain & retail therapy to sooth nerves!
Happy you took the readings in stride. :) I hate giving bummerish news!
Your Rising ruler is traditonally Saturn, like mine...It's been in the worst position possibly astrologically the past months...Woohoo it's finally going direct!!!
You may also want to post your natal birth info on the other forum here...We can look at your progressed chart for possibilites.

-EPS