Should I buy a guitar for myself or a cello for her?

[Three-leg-cat]

(The "her" in the question is the girl I mentioned in the thread "above love..." after ammi's posting.)

The question came up in my mind more than a week ago when I walked down the musicial instruments store and I saw two Classical guitars in well quality (made in Spain) for sale with price cut. But while I was thinking of myself, I remember that "she" told me her interests in cello (double bass?) but she had usually not enough money for renting one. I once asked her before but she didn't agree on this. I was wondering if she did mind for anythings or not...

I know that I can also buy a cello (or double bass) from a wholesale supplier since it's not too expensive and I could choose one of fair quality for a beginner.

I just thought of her, and I want her to enjoy with music. So I ought to ask:

"Should I buy one of the guitar from the store or a cello for her?"
March 23, 2006 19:50 (GMT +8 ) Cheung Kwan O, Hong Kong (114E15 22N20)

Here is the chart:
http://www.publicupload.com/files/Horary_should_I_buy_one_of_the_guitar_or_a_cello_f or_her.PNG (http://www.publicupload.com)

But one thing a missed is that whether she had been learning "cello" or "double bass". She told me before(probably cello) but just in Chinese the common name for these two stuff are easily confused. So I made another question to avoid these confusions:

"What was she learning? Cello or double bass?"
March 31, 2006 15:07:20 (GMT +8 ) Mong Kok, Hong Kong (114E10 22N19)

Here is this one:
http://www.publicupload.com/files/Horary_What_was_she_learning_cello_or_double_bass. PNG (http://www.publicupload.com)

Actually my questions were not posted as soon as I've just thought of them. A reason maybe I'm worrying about a possible frustrating answer or maybe I was just too busy to think of what to do during this course. Or it's just a matter of money. More hesitations......but now I guess I still need some lights and directions to carry on. Great thanks!

[Summery Joy]

Three-leg-cat,

Questions that start with "should"are very difficult to answer. Please tell us what you are hoping to accomplish by buying her this musical instrument. Are you interested merely in her having something that she could enjoy? Are you hoping that may get her to be interested in a relationship with you? Are you trying to get her to forgive you for something?

You should decide what you want this gift to do. Then the question will be "Will the gift accomplish.....?"

Don't draw up a new chart though. I will use the first chart. Just provide the information needed.

;)

[Three-leg-cat]

I have mixed feelings on this.

Recently I could just wrote poems to her through email to express what couldn't I explain with reasons, and she didn't reply any. I usually remember the hurtful words she said last time.

I feel guilty for her and I could hardly cry but tears just welled up in my eyes at some moments. I felt I couldn't explain to her in astrology as she said before when she was blaming me for my distant, detached attitude, "...I can even know what's the problem with you without astrology! Chiron in Ascendant (my natal chart) need to learn with hurts!..."

She said it was me who made her depressed. She couldn't tell her friend for my problems...

I know I might did something wrong but I didn't observe. Now I just feel regreted but I'm in another detach world and have lost communications with her. I know that money may not buy anything but I just want to say I'm not so indifferent and I could pay my effort to care for anythings she needs.

If the fate don't make us into a couple, then it's better not be enemies. When we were together, we didn't waste any money to enjoy anythings. But now when we are not together, I just think I can do nothing.

I just remember we once went to another guitar store for she said she liked a "wooden" acoustic bass. She also said she liked Yo-Yo Ma playing cello, too. But instead I didn't even get her a concert DVD. I might feel what I had done to make her feel being ignored...

I'm not sure for what she needs but I may do something to understand.

As my Venus in Pisces trine Ascendant, I think even I cannot be with her, I still willing to sacrifice, to compensate (if I can), to remedy for any mistakes that I had made. I made a chart for whether or not she will forgive me, too.

Thank you for hearing what was up in my mind. I think a "present" like this may mean something not less than a "card", showing that as least from a view of friend, I'm still care for her. I still bless her for her good.

Three-leg-cat

[Summery Joy]

Three-leg-cat,

Thanks for the background. The answer to your question is confusing me though.

See, your significator is Venus in Aquarius in the 4th house. This 4th house placement shows you stuck in the past.

Gifts are ruled by the 5th house. In this chart, the cusp of the 5th house is in Aquarius. Thus, the significator of the gift is Saturn Rx in Leo in the 10th house. Here's the confusing part: Saturn is in rx motion and in its sign of detriment suffering great essential dibility. It does, however, have strong accidental dignity by being in the 10th house.

The only planet Saturn is applying to is the Sun, the ruler of the 11th house. However, Saturn is only applying because it is in Rx motion. Sooner or later it'll go direct again.

The placements are a bit confusing but I think that the gift will not do the good that you're hoping it would. It'll get you to be friends with her for a while, but soon enough you two will go back to fighting and/or separation.

This is the best I can do. Hope it helps.