changes evident, what else to expect -solar arc neptune

[cassanra]

Got a call yesterday about possibly me moving back into our main building. I have been in this building some five years plus....
Solar arc Neptune is opposed natal sun in 3rd house of environment. Sun rules 6th so dissolve of work environment. Solar arc Neptune has now formed a square to natal moon in the sixth to emphasis dissolve of old work habits to be replaced by new?
Solar arc Neptune is also now sesqui. venus/mars (midpoint between sun and moon) in the fifth. Venus rules 7th and 2nd partnerships and mars rules ascendant. This is where I am concerned.
Recently I have had a lot of trouble with my ex-changing jobs (he called me thursday to let me know he changed jobs again and did not bother to tell me he left the other 10 days ago).
Could the seq from solar neptune to venus mars be about disolve/deception in relation to 2nd house my income, 7th house partnemrships or open enemies ie ex I am also worried that there is more to the story concerning my long time beau. could this be warning of that dissolve too?
Solar arc merc. is now square natal jupiter in the 8th...I am not sure what is implying either...news of a death? transformation /movement

I think my biggest worry is in reference to the chiildren, my beau, deception by my ex in relation to finances.
How do I pin this down? as to exactly what is happening and where it will go.

[astrologer50]

Solar arc neptune opp sun are both cadent houses so the energy may not be obvious. Has something to do with your pride, edge, values, beliefs, connected to 9th house matters and that includes in-laws by the way....
Your could well find your physical energy ebbing wiht neptune and may want to sleep more hon....;)

Below is Robert Hands transit of Neptune opp sun to give you flavour of these two energies:-
Neptune Opposition Sun
You should be very careful under this transit. First, your physical vitality will not be as great as it could be. You may become weakened by a variety of ailments, if you are not careful. Avoid exposure to illness, and if possible don't use any type of drugs, prescription or otherwise. Be sure to eat the proper foods and stay away from dietary regiments that involve giving up a particular kind of food for philosophical reasons. Unfortunately your body does not live on philosophy! Iron deficiency or similar debilitating conditions are a great danger at this time.

In your relationships make absolutely certain that you present yourself to others as clearly and as straightforwardly as you can. Do not leave people in doubt about your intentions or your position on any matter. If others have any reason to ­misunderstand you, they will, and they are likely to work against you because misunderstanding easily turns to fear or mistrust. For the same reason, avoid any involvement or devious schemes, for they probably will work to your detriment.

Work only with people whom you can trust and communicate with, so that if there are any accidental misunderstandings, you and they can straighten them out without becoming suspicious of each other. Give anyone who enters your life now plenty of time to prove that he or she is honest before you place a great deal of trust in that person.

The problem at this time is that defeats in connection with others can be unusually debilitating. Feelings of discouragement and futility are a great danger and can make you want to give up, thus creating even worse results. If you are not careful, you may come out of this transit feeling very badly about yourself.

Be careful about new elements in your life, such as becoming totally involved with some new movement or organisation or adopting uncritically a new approach to life or a new philosophy. You are unusually subject to self‑delusion at this time. Let every idea or movement prove its worth before you commit yourself to it.

If you follow these precautions, this transit can show you a very spiritual dimension to life. You can become aware of a deeper meaning in life than you have ever been aware of before. The problem is that the road to this understanding is full of snares and delusions that you must carefully find your way through.

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I dont use minor aspects, so cannot answer this questions, "Solar arc Neptune is also now sesqui. venus/mars (midpoint between sun and moon) in the fifth"

SA Mercury square Jupiter is good. Natallay is can suggest you overtalk or undertalk, look at the houses 5th & 8th. Do you share your resources with your BF? maybe that will be an area of tension.. Certainly dont think its predicting death hon.... Although if there is one your Jupiter will make sure your inherit

Your progressed sun 2years ago conj natal venus, did you marry? have a child?
Progressed sun onto Mars suggests much more Wilfulness and assertiveness of your Sun energies

Personally i'd be looking at what T Pluto on your prog Saturn then MC is going to do next year luv. Then will touch your natal saturn in 10th..... lots ambition, hard work and transformations...

On slightly different note, my father passed away as T Pluto conj MC

[cassanra]

Thanks......I use the sesqui as per the information we went over on a previous thread that squares, oppositions, semi-squares and sesqui were the aspects that were considered in solar arcs...That it makes a contact is the focus not if it is a minor or major aspect..as I understand...so they seem to act differently..
Thank you for your input as I did not take into consideration the cadent house but it does seem to be acting quite subltely and your quote from Robert Hand makes sense. I do seem to be in retreat mode as I do not quite trust anymore and feel I people have to , more than ever, establish trust with me. Even people I know. ...I am reassessing. I am quite tired.
I am interested in the Pluto connection to progressed Saturn. I do not quite understand how that is going to play out through progressions.
Pluto and Saturn would occupy the progressed 7th. I get confused on how to 'read' the progressions of planets and houses that is if to read it also as SAturn in the 7 or in the natal 10th or both.

[astrologer50]

Again i say these aspects,"semi-squares and sesqui were the aspects that were considered in solar arcs" are not noticeable, important or functional. Its just the conj that most potent, then squares, oppositions....

I would keep an eye on SA Uranus conj 7th cusp in approx 4years time hon, cos that does suggest a break of some sort

In progressions its more important for personal planets, sun - mars. Think your stretching things a bit doing outer planets to progressed houses, planets

What happened 2years ago when prog Sun conj natal Venus? that should have been romance, relationship??

Your progress Saturn is 4' Cap and natal Pluto is 2' so when the made a trine aspect, work it backwards..... what did happen?

[cassanra]

When progressed sun conjoined natal mars and venus a 12 year relationship took a very bad turn. His parents became very ill, he did not know if he could handle the relationship and basically it was put on hold...his father passed in Jan. and his mother needs family so he is traveling a lot to be with her. We just started really being able talking to each other as he could not handle anything else....he completely pulled away these last two years and I have no idea if we are just growing further and further apart or eventually coming to a better place as our relationship has changed . so what I thought was going to be a positive turn (maybe it will be eventually) has actually turned into a signficant crisis that required my patience. With limited trust (neptune) it is a tough time and not a happy time.
Progressed Saturn in exact trine to natal pluto occured in 1998 and incidently it appears that transiting saturn was in trine to natal saturn and natal pluto in taurus.
As far as the trine of Progressed Saturn to natal pluto I looked back it does not bode well actually. I was in the final throws of a very difficult divorce ( aren't they all) and that was the summer I traveled to see my father. I came home to a horendenous legal battle as my ex essentially stirred up a huge controversial allegation of sexual abuse of my 3 year old daughter by my father that eventually played out and ended with minor charges. But my whole family was in hell for over a year. It was an extremely transforming time and I had to stand up and fight for what I knew was right for all parties in the face of legal wheels. I would not want to go through that shananagins again. But Progressed Pluto will not aspect natal Saturn by trine for many years when I am 94 so I am not too worried about that one...yet:)
When SAturn transited conjunction progressed Pluto last year the relationship mentioned above took a positive turn and rebirth and tranformation would definitely be key words.
But clearly maybe there are themes that will repeat that I can explore with these planets connecting again transiting pluto to progressed saturn...
you have given me food for thought.
Astrolog50 thanks for your interest and response. Most helpful